âDo You Make These Mistakes In Bed?â
The simple⊠step-by-step⊠program that has helped over 3000 men to avoid the sex killing mistakes most men make in bed⊠and enabled them to give their wives intense⊠multiple⊠whole-body orgasms⊠virtually on commandâŠ
âThis is required reading for any man thatâs serious about getting MORE in his married sex life⊠more sex⊠more intensity⊠more variety⊠and more appreciation from his wife⊠â
-Jeffery Ambrose, Founder Ultimate Married Sex, LLC
Date: Monday 22nd September 2014
Dear Frustrated Fellow Husband,
My name is Robert Irwin.
And, if youâll give me just a few minutes, Iâll show you the biggest sex mistakes, that most men make. If you are making one (or several) of these mistakes, it will be almost impossibleto achieve the sort of sex life that youâd like to have.
If you are making these mistakes⊠anything you do to get your wife interested in more sex will be as painful as banging your head against a brick wall⊠and just about as effective.
Iâll also reveal to you the secrets to male sexual power that Iâve discovered and developed over the past fifteen years, as a sexual explorer, relationship and sex coach and best-selling sex advice author.
Like thousands of other men, these secrets will enable you to, finally, make your married sex life better than youâve ever dreamed possible⊠starting tonight! So, I strongly encourage you to read every word of this letter. If you are frustrated with your current sex life or marriage⊠or both⊠this could be the most important letter youâve ever read. Over the past fifteen years, Iâve played with various analogies and metaphorsfor husbands that are capable of making the sex in their marriage fulfilling for both themselves and their wives.
Iâve settled upon âMaestroâ as my âgo toâ metaphor because I think the metaphor of a musical conductor most fully describes all of the various characteristics and skills that are necessary for a man to make his married sex life EVERYTHING that he wants it to beâŠ
Corny, a little? Maybe. But, it works. So⊠just play along, ok? Iâll explain this metaphor, in more detail, later in this letter, but, for now, just know that the goal, if you are looking for ultimate sexual experiences with your wife⊠is to become an Orgasm Maestro. Iâll (try) to refrain from making too many puns that involve references to how you should be using âyour baton.â In the next few paragraphs, Iâll revealâŠ
How to create higher levels of sexual desire in your wife than youâve ever seen before. Youâll be capable of creating an intensity of sexual desire and responses in her, so intense, that, sometimes, theyâll be (almost) scary intense.
How to flip the sexual dynamics in your marriage so that you, never again, find yourself begging her for sex. From this time, forward, it will be you that decides where⊠when⊠how long⊠and at what intensity⊠you make love together. Although this powerful capability (to be the sexual leader in your relationship) will end your fear of being sexually rejected by your wife (ever again), trust me, sheâll be eternally grateful that you are now in charge, sexually. Sheâll be getting turned on just thinking about following your lead.
How to become an Orgasm Maestro. Youâll be able to make (the rest of) your married sex life a sensual symphony. Youâll start each and every sexual encounter knowing that you have the sexual knowledge and skills to give your wife virtually unlimited types of sexual and orgasmic pleasure. And, youâll bask in her appreciation and surprise at your ability to âconductâ her entire being⊠body and mind⊠to masterpieces of sexual fulfillment.
How to make it âno big dealâ to turn your deepest and most long-held fantasies into erotic realities⊠regularly. If, in the past, thereâs been a âdisconnectâ between your desires and fantasies and her willingness to to make them reality, youâll want to kick yourself when you realize how simple it was, after all, to get her to WANT to play along.
Overall, youâll have the peace of mind of knowing that, going forward, your sex life will be a simpler, easier, more positive part of your marriage⊠an unlimited source of fun, connections and sexual excitement⊠and that makes your relationship stronger.
By the end of this letter, youâll possess sexual knowledge with the power to transform your marriage and sex life, forever.
Because I respect your intelligence (and your time)⊠Iâm not going to pull any punches⊠Iâm going to just cut to the chase and be BRUTALLY honest about the real reasons that your sex life is less than youâd like it to be.
And then Iâm going to show you exactly what you can do about it. If youâre reading this letter, Iâll assume that one (or more) of these apply to you:
You might be bothered by the thought that your wife âjust doesnât like sex as much as you do.â
You may be frustrated because sheâs not comfortable with her body and she isnât willing to fully express her sexuality. At least once in a while, you wish you could see her lose control in bed⊠completely lose control⊠so much so that, for a few brief and glorious moments, sheâs overcome by waves of sensual and orgasmic passion.
Youâre bored with âthe same âol same âol,â sexually⊠but sheâs not willing to try new and wilder sexual activities.
Married sex can be confusing and frustrating at times.
Youâre getting offended and resentful that she never initiates sex; itâs always your âjobâ to try to get things started, sexually.
Youâre embarrased that (when she even has an orgasm) her orgasms arenât all that intense⊠and you âjust donât know howâ to give her the sexual pleasure you, desparately, want to give her.
Youâre confused by her lack of concern for your sexual pleasure. Although you get incredibly âturned onâ by knowing that you are pleasing her, sexually, she doesnât seem to get that same âthrillâ by exploring your sexual needs and desires.
Youâre suspicious that sheâs faking her orgasms⊠even the few she seems to have.
Your worried that things in your sex life may never get any better⊠or even worse⊠your poor sex life may lead to negative consequences like infidelity or divorce.
If any of the above describe some of your thoughts and feelings about your sex life and youâre if youâre starting to spend precious time being depressed that you were born missing something that everyone else seems to have, you need to know that you are not alone. Most men have these exact same thoughts and concerns. These types of sexual thoughts and desires are completely normal. The depressing reality is that most men make it to their graves⊠never having experienced truly great sex.According to statisticsâŠ
82% of men are described as âBelow Average in bedâ by their wives.
30% of women have NEVER achieved an orgasm during intercourse with their husband!
65% of women admitted to faking orgasms, on a regular basis.
92% of women admitted to having faked an orgasm at some time in the last 3 years!
78% of women said they preferred a cuddle to sex.
39% of married women will cheat on their husbands.
25% of men will get turned downby their own wife over half the time.
Nearly 50% of men have wives that will NEVER ask for sex.
Most men will neverexperience a trulygreat married sex life.
The thing you have to realize, though, is that your âless than what you wished it wasâ sex life (so far) and the statistics above are not what they are because itâs really all that difficult to have a fantastic married sex life. Creating an amazing married sex life isnât just possible⊠itâs much simpler and easier than youâd ever imagine⊠no matter your age⊠or how long youâve been married⊠and⊠even if your wife doesnât seem interested in fixing things. The reason that those above statistics are so depressingto me is âŠ
For most men⊠including you⊠avoiding all of this pain⊠anger⊠and sexual frustration⊠is shockingly simple and easy to do⊠with the correct sexual knowledge.
The only thing standing between you and the erotic experiences, with your wife, youâve always dreamed about⊠is a little bit of CORRECT knowledge about male and female sexuality⊠and a little bit of âpractice.â Although most men will never experience the levels of sexual connection and sexual excitement they desire, it isnât because itâs difficult to achieve your sexual goals; itâs because theyâve never had access to THE FACTS about married sexuality⊠the facts that Iâm revealing to you now. They donât know the simple, but not obvious, truths about what TO DO and what NOT TO DO in bed⊠if you want to make sex a positive experience for both you and your wife. So, first⊠letâs cover the things NOT TO DO in the bedroom⊠the sex mistakes you have to stop making IMMEDIATELY⊠if you want any real chance at getting more and better sex in your marriageâŠ
Sex Mistake #1: Underestimating your wifeâs true sexual potential.
Many men try to feel better about their crappy sex lives by telling themselves that their wifeâs lack of sexual desire and interest is normal and expected⊠simply because sheâs a woman. They tell themselves, âEveryone knows women are less sexual than men, right?â Wrong! This little lie that some men tell themselves is wrong on so many levels I donât know where to start, but letâs try by starting with the truthâŠ
If your wife has a lack of sexual desire and interest⊠itâs not because sheâs less sexual than you⊠itâs because the sex in your marriage is âmore trouble than itâs worthâ for herâŠ
A womanâs lack of sexual desire and interest is a direct result of her (conscious or unconscious) belief that sex, at least sex with you, is âmore trouble than itâs worthâ on some level. This belief, whether sheâs even aware of it, or not, is based on her sexual history with you. It has everything to do with the quality of her past sexual experiences with you⊠and, virtually, nothing to do with her inherent sexual potential. By all measures, your wife has way more sexual potential than you do⊠once you know how to coax that potential out and turn it into erotic reality. Your wifeâs body is better designed for sexual pleasurethan yours:
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Her clitoris contains over 8,000 pleasure receptors. This is about the same number you have in your penis. But, her clitoris is approximately 1/10th the size of your penis. This means that your wifeâs clitoris has TEN TIMES more pleasure potential than your penis!
Your wife is capable of different types of orgasms. You and I can have, uh, one type of orgasm. Your wife, though, is capable of EIGHT completely different types of orgasms!
Your wife is capable of multiple orgasms. Most men, if theyâre lucky, are capable of multiple orgasms in the same day. Your wife has the potential to have virtually unlimited multiple orgasms⊠in the same lovemaking session.
Your wife can have multiple orgasms, back to back. Again, even if you are skilled at âcoming back quick,â itâs going to take you five or ten minutes, right? Your wife, under the right circumstances, can actually have orgasm, after orgasm, after orgasm⊠with little or no time lapse between them!
Sex Mistake #2: Believing that she values sex less than you do.
Sex is a much bigger deal for your wife than you may imagine. Whether youâve seen it in a while, or not, your wife has very deep sexual needs and desires.
Women⊠including your wife⊠are by natureâŠincredibly sexual creaturesâŠ
Given the right circumstances, in a marriage and bed room, your wife is more inclined to value sex and all of your sexual interactions more deeply more than you do. Women, by nature, are more easily capable of bonding their physical, emotional and spiritual parts during sex. They seek and can receive deep levels of emotional comfort and intense validationfrom sex.
This is why disappointing sex can actually be emotionally painful for your wife⊠painful enough to make her choose to avoid sexâŠ
This is one of the main reasons that your wife may, at times, choose to fake her orgasms⊠she just wants the sex to stop because itâs emotionally painful for her to continue (when the sex is disappointing)⊠sex, literally, becomes âmore trouble than itâs worthâ for her. In fact, in many marriages, this âsexual disconnect,â over time, can make a wife withdrawn, resentful, depressed and, overall, âdownright hard to live with.â So, how can it be true that your wife is capable of valuing sex MORE than you do, when youâve never seen a hint of this?
Because, as hard as it may be for us guys to imagine⊠women actually care about the quality of sex they have!Women value sex⊠when itâs good.Iâm sure youâve heard one of your friends say something like, âThereâs no such thing as bad sex.âBut, it doesnât work that way for women.Women like GOOD sex more than men do⊠when they get it.
And, this is why âaverage sexâ or âbad sexâ is so disappointing to your wife. Disappointing sex actually throws her entire being âfor a loopâ; it mixes up her thoughts and emotions into a negative storm in her mind⊠causing her to feel , mostly, uncomfortable and sad. After awhile, itâs easier for her to just say, ânot tonight,â or try to get you to finish faster⊠or âfake it.â
Look⊠the reality is⊠just like most men⊠most women havenâtreceived any sort of real sex education.
They, too, are âmaking it up as they go alongâ and trying to figure out the very complicated stuff that is relationships and sex. So, they rely upon their natural (female) logic when they try to understand whatâs happening when the sex in their marriage isnât so great. And, ultimately, they end up taking everything negative very personally. If youâve ever had an issue with erectile dysfunction, you know exactly what Iâm talking about. No matter how much your wife might tell you that she understands that your âproblemâ isnât about her, she canât fully hide the fact that, in reality, she thinks itâs all about her. Similarly, when sheâs relying on her âfemale instinctsâ to assess the state of her sex life, sheâs assuming the worse:
You donât love her like you should.
You donât care about her enough to âjust knowâ how to make the sex great.
If she was âsexy enough,â maybe youâd be better in bed.
Of course, none of this is true. But, to her⊠it sure feels true to her.
Sex Mistake #3: Begging, Nagging or Pouting for Sex
Iâm sure youâve heard the aphorism, âThe definition of insanity is doing the same thing, over and over, and expecting different results.â I mention this because, the next most common mistake sexually-deprived husbands make is one of those kinds of mistakes⊠No matter how many times a man begs, nags or pouts for sex and is rejected⊠a few days later, heâs back to begging, nagging or pouting⊠and getting rejected.
Look, itâs not that I donât understand the attraction of the obvious approach to getting more sex; I do.
Thereâs nothing obvious about how to correctly adjust âthe knobs and levers â that control your wifeâs psychological, emotional and sexual responsesâŠ
What would you do when your computer isnât giving you the results that you need and desire?em>Do you beg it or nag it or demand that it give you what you want?Of course not.Unless you are a real knuckle head, youâll (eventually) accept that, to get the results you desire, youâre going to have to step back, get out the ownerâs manual and figure out which buttons you arenât pressing correctly.Which is exactly the same thing you have to do, NOW, relative to your sexual relationship with your wife.You have to step back and spend some time learning how your wifeâs been designed and programmed, sexually.The great news, though, isâŠ
Once you understand how your wife is designed and programmed sexuallyâŠyouâll never have to beg for sex again⊠because it will just happenâŠ
âArtistâs renderingâ of âthe controlsâ to your sexual response system.
âArtistâs renderingâ of âthe controlsâ to your wifeâs sexual response system.
âArtistâs renderingâ of what we WISH her controls looked likeâŠ
Not the best way to manage sexual dynamicsâŠ
When you find yourself resorting to begging, nagging or (attempted) demanding to get sex, there are two fundamental concepts that you need to understand:
The Sexual Dynamics of your relationship. There are all sorts of factors affecting the quality of your sexual relationship.But, âthe Kingâ of all factors is sexual dynamics; they are the âbig pictureâ environment in which everything else happens.Basically, it is the sexual ranking within your relationship; how you and your spouse rank each other (consciously or uncounsciously), between the two of you, sexually.Over time, in every relationship, the sexual dynamics(ranking) between spouses becomes âa givenâ and rarely changes.HINT: If you are begging for sex, sheâs not ranking you as the leader in the sexual dynamics area.
Sexual Value of one spouse to another. Understanding sexual value can be hard for some husbands because its implications can be kind of âharsh.â
The bottom line is⊠if your wife lacks sexual desire, its MOSTLY because she doesnât find you as sexually valuable as youâd like. For whatever reason (or a variety of reasons), you no longer give her the same chemical, hormonal and emotional ârushâ that you once did. Although that might be hard to accept, the good news is that this doesnât have to be a permanant thing; you absolutely can change this. When you know how, you can give yourself MORE sexual value, in her eyes, than you ever had. And, you can return that sexual rush to her system every timeshe looks at you. And, when you realize the truth about sexual dynamics and sexual value, youâll realize that begging for, nagging for or demanding sex from her is the quickest and easiest way to screw up the sexual dynamics in your relationship⊠and to reduce your sexual value to your wife.
The crazy thing about this is that⊠no matter how much she loves you and appreciates you and wants to be sexually attracted to you⊠if the sexual dynamics in your relationship are âupside downâ or your sexual value to her is low⊠things⊠sexually⊠will never âclickâ because these are deeper and more powerful UNCONSCIOUS factors than any conscious thoughts she may have about youâŠ
So, once youâve realized that the balance of power in your sexual relationship (the sexual dynamics) are âupside downâ and that you need to increase your sexual value, in her eyes, STOP begging and START learning how to flip the sexual dynamics in your relationship and the secrets to increasing your sexual value to her.Although I canât give you all the details, in this limited space, I can tell you that the secrets to doing the above involve accepting that you need to better understand the skills of seduction.Many men, to their sexual peril, assume that they no longer have to âseduceâ their wives because they already âwon the prizeâ: they got her to marry them.Nothing could be further from the truthâŠ
Her sexual attraction to you happens at a very deep, unconscious levelâŠ
Ultimately⊠your ability to get TONS of sex⊠for the rest of your life⊠has MORE to do with your skills in manipulating sexual dynamics and sexual value than your skills in bedâŠ
Since the factors of sexual dynamics and sexual value are ALWAYS a factor in any relationship⊠no longer how long youâve been married⊠it will ALWAYS be necessary for you to âseduceâ your wife, emotionally, intellectually and sexually. Bottom line⊠The husbands that get the most sex understand that they should always be âsellingâ themselves and the idea of sex to their wives. It doesnât matter how good you are in bed; if you are a poor sexual salesmen she will not buy into your offer.
Sex Mistake #4: NEVER Ask Her What She Wants â When You are in Bed
No matter what youâve read in some ârelationship expertâsâ book⊠when you are in bed with your wife, you should never ask her what she wants, sexually. If you want to ask your wife about what turns her on, over dinner, thatâs fine. But donât ask her what she wants when youâre actually making love to her, because:
It makes you look tentative and uncertain.
It breaks her out of the moment of pleasure and sexiness and puts her into her âlogical brainâ (which is exactly what you donât want).
It makes her wish that she was with a man who already knew what turned her on.
Again, neverask what she wants when in bed.Do this instead:Study what sexually satisfies women in bed so that you are guessing much less.Pay attention to the signals sheâs already giving you:
Do your sexual âhomeworkâ before you get to the bedroomâŠ
Whatâs working and what isnât.
How her body responds.
Her breathing.
The sounds sheâs making.
You need to be hyper-conscious about the fact that⊠whether she says a single word or not⊠she is already(trying) to communicate with you sexuallyâŠ
Another reason not to ask her what she wants is that, for a woman, deep down, she believes that the more you love and care for her⊠the more youâll âjust knowâ what she wants and needs. And, to some extent, sheâs right. But, instead of âaskingâ her what she wants and needs, just learn how to observe the signals sheâs already sending.
Sex Mistake #5: NOT Following Her Sexual Rhythms
Thereâs one mistake that most every man makes and itâs one of the biggest orgasm killers⊠ever. More wivesâ amazing orgasms have been killedby this mistake than most all others combined.
In fact⊠avoiding this mistake⊠alone⊠could be THE KEY to taking your married sex life from bad to okay⊠even if you do NOTHING else!
Avoiding this mistake will give most husbands, at least, a shot at giving their wives consistent, powerful orgasms⊠every timethey make love!
To take her over the top⊠pay attention to her sexual âbeatsâ and ârhythms.â
If youâve ever paid close attention to how women respond to music, you should have immediately noticed that women are much more affected by RHYTHM than are men.This is most likely because itâs âhard wiredâ into their sexual response systems. You need to take advantage of this fact when you make love to your wife. When you are stimulating your wife, whether with your fingers, tongue, or during intercourse⊠itâs important that you know where and how she likes to be touched. But, itâs also important to focus on finding the âsexual rhythmsâ that she responds to, as well. If youâre paying attention to her body, it will become obvious (if youâre looking for it) when you find âthe right beatâ or her âsexual rhythm.â Then⊠and hereâs where almost every guy gets it wrong⊠as she begins to get more and more excitedâŠespecially when it seems as if sheâs about to climax⊠⊠RESIST the urge to speed things up! Men want to âsprint for the finish line,â sexually. When we feel like our wives are weâre getting close, we have a natural and âhard wiredâ desire to achieve our goal⊠finish the job⊠and make her orgasm. And, usually, this means that we âspeed things up.â But, the problem is⊠When you go faster and harder, you drop âthe beat,â you lose âthe sexual rhythmâ that was working. Hereâs what to do insteadâŠ
Keep the exact same âbeatâ or ârhythmâ that you were doing whenyou started to notice her approaching orgasmâŠ
In this way, women are very different from men. As men approach orgasm, they want (need) things to âspeed up.â Women get into more of a âgroove,â sexually, and they need to âkeep that grooveâ if they are going to continue through to orgasm. If you resist the urge to speed things up⊠and just keep stimulating her with the exact same âbeatâ or ârhythmâ⊠within a few minutes, youâll be pleased to see her having a deep, satisfying orgasm. Thatâs it. And, yes, it really is that easy. And I promise you, that if you try it, too, youâll be kicking yourself that you missed something this simple (but far from obvious) that could have made your sex life better⊠years ago! Bottom line is, it works like a charm
Sex Mistake #6: Underestimating The Importance of Her Clitoris
Most women, in their entire lives, never have an orgasm that isnât the result of clitoris stimulation. Fortunately, if you want to learn how to give your wife proper clitoral stimulation, you can refer to your own experiences; her clitoris and your penis are very similar in structure and function. The only real difference between her clitoris and your penis â besides location in the body â is that your penis is also used for urination and her clitoris is not.
Otherwise, they have many similarities:
In the womb, you and your wife had the EXACT SAME genital parts (for a time). All embryos have exactly the same genital parts, until the embryo is exposed (or not exposed) to various hormones within the motherâs womb. If the motherâs womb bathes the embryo in testosterone, the tissue develops into a penis. If not, it develops into a clitoris.
The clitoris is made from the exact same material as the penis.
Just like the penis, the clitoris fills with blood and becomes erect during sexual arousal.
The clitoris and penis are similar in size. Most men are surprised to learn that their wifeâs clitoris is actually pretty close to the same size as their penis. The only difference is that your penis is mostly external to your body and your wifeâs clitoris is mostly internal to hers.
By far⊠the most reliableway to consistently help your wife to reach orgasm is by stimulatingâŠdirectly or indirectly⊠her clitoris.
What many husbands donât realize about the clitoris is that their penis, alone, usually cannot stimulate it. Because of its position in the womanâs body, the ability of the penis to provide rhythmic stimulation to the clitoris is extremely difficult. This means that, if you want to bring your wife to orgasm, consistenly, you have to focus more on types of stimulation that will directly or indirectly stimulate her clitoris⊠well enough to bring her to climax:
Manual stimulation. Using your fingers.
Oral stimulation. Using your mouth and tongue.
Toys. Any sex toy that vibrates can make clitoral stimulation easy.
Sexual positions that (at least indirectly) stimulate her clitoris. If you learn the sexual positions and position variations that DO stimulate her clitoris (HINT: NOT standard âMissionary Positionâ), youâll want to focus on these positions when trying to give her orgasms.
Many times, focusing on the clitoris is one of the quickest and easiest ways to start your wife on the path of becoming orgasmic. Ironically, many couples that are sexually frustrated downplay the importance of the clitoris, for some reason. They just keep having Missionary Position sex, night after night, week after week and canât understand why the wife never has an orgasm⊠never realizing that no one is ever stimulating her clitoris. If you are in one of these couples, you need to start adding other types of stimulation to your routine so that your wife has a chance to receive more clitoral stimulation.
Sex Mistake #7: Overestimating The Importance of Her Clitoris
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Now, just because clitoral stimulation is the most common (and easy) way to make your wife orgasm, it is far from the ONLY or the BEST way to bring your wife sexual and orgasmic pleasure.
Did you know that your wife has the potential to have
different types of orgasms?
Your wife is capable of having ALL of the following types of orgasms:
1. Clitoral orgasms.
2. Vaginal orgasms.
3. Cervix orgasms.
4. G Spot orgasms.
5. A Spot orgasms.
6. Power Spot orgasms.
7. Ejaculation orgasms.
8. Anal Orgasms.
If you want to make your sex life better⊠for the rest of your life, youâll want to learn how to give your wife all of the above types of orgasms. Obviously, the more sexual options you have to play with, the less likely it is that boredom will cause your sex life to dwindle away.
Sex Mistake #8: Relying Too Much on Intercourse
Most frustrated husbands focus too much on intercourse. If your wife isnât as orgasmic as youâd like her to be, chances are that you are focusing too much on intercourse during lovemaking. Intercourse is actually one of the least effective ways to bring a woman to orgasm. Why?
Because intercourse, relative to your wifeâs potential to reach orgasm, is the equivalent of the proverbial âtrying to jam a square peg into a round holeâ(no pun intended).Since most women can orgasm only by having their clitoris stimulated, and itâs really hard to stimulate your wifeâs clitoris, in any real way, during intercourse, intercourse is one of the last types of sexual activity that you should be doingâŠwhen the goal is helping your wife to reach orgasm. Now, women still get quite a bit of emotional and sexual fulfillment from intercourse, whether they orgasm or not, so, Iâm not suggesting that you avoid intercourse⊠just donât expect her to have too many orgasms⊠just from intercourse.And, ironically, the most popular position (with frustrated coupleâs, at least) for intercourse is the âstandard orderâ âMissionary Positionâ and this is virtually the worst possible position for stimulating your wifeâs clitoris.
Intercourse is wonderful. Itâs just not the best way to make her orgasm!
To start to see your wife reach orgasm more often, youâll have to stop focusing so much on intercourse and, certainly, youâll have to do better than the Missionary Position. Youâll need to learn how to skillfully stimulate her in other ways, as well⊠such as manually (using your fingers) and orally(using your mouth or tongue).
The husbands that are most successful in bed donât waste much time attempting to bring their wives to orgasm⊠through intercourse⊠alone⊠because making this happen islike learning how to juggle⊠while on a high wireâŠitâs really difficult.
So, if you want to be much better in bed, start by learning the secrets of non-intercourse sexual activities⊠and start trying them out right away!
Sex Mistake #8: Focusing on Only One Type of Orgasm
I encourage you to think BIG when you are learning the art of giving your wife orgasms. There are many triggers in your wifeâs mind and body that are orgasmic. She can, if sheâs turned on and extremely orgasmic, climax simply by thinking about something arousing.
Keep in mind that you can learn to stimulate her in many areas that deliver many different types of orgasms⊠itâs not just about rubbing her clitoris ten different waysâŠ
Once you open up the realm of orgasmic possibility with her, âthe sky is the limit,â sexually, for you both⊠which is what makes helping your wife to become orgasmic⊠and multi-orgasmic⊠so exciting. Again, with the right knowledge, you can regularly bring your wife to all of the eight female orgasm types (listed above). And, with each of these kinds of orgasms, you have the possibility of giving her the following typesof orgasms, as well:
Single orgasms. This is self-explanatory.
Multiple orgasms. This is when your wife has more than one orgasm in the same lovemaking session.
Blended Orgasms. The blended orgasm is one of the most intense kinds of stimulation to give your wife. Basica
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